Are there consistent patterns in my relationships?
How is my past affecting my relationship?
While in a relationship do I see what I can get out of it rather than what I can put into it?
Do I constantly question my relationships?
How do we cope in times of stress and conflict?
Are our needs being met?
Is my partnership enabling me to grow?
Do we have passion?
Do we share intimacy?
Are we committed?
Am I being true to myself?
Am I able to be honest?
Do I feel safe?
Can I trust my partner?